Ely Here and There

Success

2011-08-30T21:47:00.000-05:00

Success. What does it really mean?

I've been thinking a lot about what it means lately. Manly I think because I it is something that I seek. I want to look back at my life and feel like it was successful.

Life in the Fair household has been a bit on the crazy side, Weddings and photoshoots on the weekends, full time jobs during the week, and then hours of editing on weeknights. Occasionally I have to actually schedule time off for us. Mark a big X on the calendar so that I don't schedule something.

Because of the way my mind works, I automatically link my success to weather of not I do my job well. And I have high standards. I can not think of a photo shoot or design item I've done that after I felt completely satisfied, I want to strive to do more/better/greater/more creative. But that's a whole other issue. But what I mean by that, I get very focused on doing those things well, that I fear that I will let things in my personal life slip. Things that I feel are important to be successful at. Like my marriage, friendships, sleeping...

So to be better at these things, I think it means cutting or consolidating some things so that I have more time to be successful at things like being a good wife/friend/sister/daughter.

And if you haven't figured it out by my lack of posts the past few months, the personal blog is something that I've decided that I can no longer be successful at, so I've decided to go down to just one blog. The one that is attached to my photography website, www.elyfairphotos.com/blog. I'm going to try to keep up with some personal stuff on there, too.

I know this all sounds so melodramatic, like I'm dropping off the face of the earth. I think I just needed there to be a little closure and finality. I hope that you will stick with me and continue to follow me on the Pro-personal blog.

Giveaway on the Pro Blog!

2011-06-09T08:15:00.000-05:00

Hello Friends!

I know a lot of you are cross over readers to my pro blog, but I wanted to let everyone know we are running a contest for a free mini session and canvas on the pro blog! Go check it out and maybe WIN! xoxoely

I Love This Commercial

2011-05-27T09:08:00.002-05:00

Pencil Art

2011-04-26T00:05:00.000-05:00

This is incredible. Itty bitty pieces of graphic art made out of pencils by Dalton Ghetti.

image from www.traditionallymoderndesigns.blogspot.com

Appreciation

2011-04-16T00:51:00.000-05:00

I was thinking today about how blessed I am to have some really special people in my life. Friends and family who are there in the thick and thin. Who are genuine and transparent. Who encourage me in my endeavors with out selfish motive or jealousy. Who help me to become who I am supposed to be.

I appreciate them. And it reminds me of all of the things that I appreciate in life and in others that make me want to be a better person. Such as...

-Creativity
-Original thought
-Honesty
-Integrity
-Selflessness
-A clean house
-a pup who is always happy to see me
-a husband who is always happy to see me
-a hug on a bad day
-laughter
-kindness
-generosity
-self awareness
-RAIN (some would be appreciated anytime soon!)
-a warm place to live
-food to share
-morning pedicures with friends
-knowledge
-the pursuit of knowledge
-the realization that I don't know everything
-an inquisitive mind
-soft colors
-delicate flowers
-my family
-friends like those I've listed above

I think think things have just been a little crazy busy lately, and I didn't even realize how much pressure I have been feeling. So when I got home, even thought I had a long list of things I wanted to accomplish before my head hit the pillow, I just sat down and caught up on a couple of episodes of Parenthood. It was the perfect medicine to relax, and watch a show that I could cry at. And I was alone, so I just let it all out. And I'm feeling like I can appreciate what is around me even a little bit more now.

And because you know I hate to blog with out a photo...

Pete is WIDE.

2011-04-10T12:00:00.000-05:00

Wide angled lens that is. We rented a wide angle for the wedding we shot this weekend, so I wanted to have some fun with Pete before we sent it back. You asked for Pete, now you're getting lots of him!

Yawning, not biting. No worries

I sure do like this little guy.

Pete and tricks for shooting in sunlight

2011-04-06T19:57:00.000-05:00

So, I've had a couple people point out that I haven't taken a lot of pictures of Pete lately. Mainly because he's been kind of sickly. He had some tummy problems last month, and then got F-I-X-E-D, and had some complications and had to wear the cone of shame for 2 weeks. So he has had it kind of rough.

But, as I mentioned on my pro-blog, I had to order a replacement lens because the motor in one of our old ones went out, so I figured he would be a good subject to test out. And as I was looking at the photos I took, I noticed that I had several different types of lighting situations in our back yard, and the different effects it gave.

And I have to note: this is big for me. I don't really love any of these pics, other than the fact that they are of sweet Pete. And I rarely show anything but my best pics, but I thought this was a good lesson.

So, first I was being lazy and just snapping a few to make sure it worked. So I was in bright, direct sun:

Yes, even Pete does not like direct sunlight. And usually whomever you are taking pictures of won't like it either. Not only is it pretty unflattering, its tough to keep you eyes open. Exhibit A above.

So, next I moved him to an area on the porch shaded by the house. Colors are more vibrant, and you get a much more even light.

Now, I've told Pete that he looks like a hyena when he holds his ears back like that. But apparently he doesn't trust me, so I took a photo to prove it to him.

Now, on a normal basis I would be happy with the pic above (minus the hyena-ness). But I couldn't get him to stay, so I had to move to plan C to get him to loosen up. His new favorite toy, basketball on a rope.

What I did for this photo was expose for his face-- meaning I changed the settings on my camera to make sure his face was correctly exposed. It blew out the background, which some photographers would say is a no-no, but it doesn't bother me. And I like the nice soft look it gives the picture.

That's all I've got kids. See you next time :)

Lovely

2011-03-30T22:43:00.000-05:00

I saw these over on PoppyTalk, and I'm in awe. People's creativity just astounds me sometimes. The amount of patience and work that must have gone into these book covers, wow. Just wow.

The artist who creates them is named Jillian Tamaki, and she has some more view on her blog. She also made this fun monster quilt. I wish I were talented enough to sew, let alone make such imaginative creations!

So, that's my inspiration for the day :) xoely

A Rock

2011-03-29T23:27:00.000-05:00

That's what I've been under. Well, actually, just a load of editing, but none the less.

Anyway, today at work I got to do some research on some type posters for an invitation that I'm working on. Typography in school was never my strong point, so I think that just intensifies my love to type and type treatments. These were some of my favorites that I saw/love/want to hang all around me.

Classic.

The amount of time that went into this Cameron Moll piece is incredible. Even the little flying bird is two commas put together. I heard this designer speak last year at the How design conference, and the story of the creation is really cool. You should check out the website.

Love this Old Tom Foolery mustache poster.

Ork has a series of posters that include major cities and the local areas. I think it would be really cool to get one of each city you lived in.

And this one if for my sister in law who made this awesome pillow.

What inspires you that you want to fill your room with??

While He is Away

2011-03-14T22:20:00.001-05:00

Um. So this is what happens when Ryan leaves for a couple of days:
1) I have dinner at 5:30
2) Shower and then proceed to stay in my pink fluffy robe for the rest of the night
3) Be really lazy. But when I DO do something, I reward myself. When I do the dishes I have some ice cream. When I feed Pete, I have some ice cream. And so on.
4) Watch unwholesome teeny-bopper showed on the CW.

Good thing he comes back tomorrow, I'm out of ice cream :)

I am thankful for:
Sunday:
1) rest
2) rain for our thirsty soil in Oklahoma
3) good photo shoots
4) Super sweet clients who won't let me leave their driveway with-out putting air in their tires
5) Cars with heaters

Monday:
1) Meetings that help the day go faster (mind you, meetings are NOT something that I am normally thankful for)
2) friends who make me dinner that I eat at 5:30
3) nights in my fluffy pink robe
4) rewards for small things
5) Nights vegging on the couch
6) long phone calls from people I love

Here is a sweet pic that I took in Vegas. If you haven't seen them on the pro blog, you should check them out :)

The past few days

2011-03-12T11:32:00.000-06:00

My heart is so sad for Japan. The images that I've been seeing are breaking my heart. It's hard for me to function as a normal person. I feel like I should just have a day of mourning for everyone who lost their lives.

But even through all of the sadness that is happening, I, like I vowed for lent, will continue to be thankful. Here are my thankfuls for the past few days.

Thursday:
I am thankful

I am thankful for winning free lunch at whole enchilada
Sisters

Friday:
I am thankful

for friends who bring me cupcakes
that at some point someone taught me to back up, back up, and back up my files. Since my computer crashed yesterday, I still can still and didn't use all my work.
for Warm days

Saturday:

I am thankful

Days to rest.
left over cupcakes
friends who are willing to help me in a tight spot
saturday morning cartoons :)

Defeat.

2011-03-09T22:57:00.000-06:00

Today, I'm feeling defeated. I think it's most likely because I ate five chocolate chip cookies for dinner.

Or because it is just one of those seasons of struggle. I know in my brain that I am so crazy blessed. But my heart feels unrested. And then I feel guilty because there are people out there who have true struggles- like how to put food on the table for their families.

As I start these 40 days of lent, I want to try to be more positive. So everyday I am going to say something I am truly thankful for that day and build on it.

Today I am thankful for: a healthy pup. Pete is on meds and back to his sweet self.

My New Little Buddy

2011-03-07T22:53:00.000-06:00

Fresh out of the oven, this is my new little buddy Tanner. My lovely sister had him this morning at 9:04am, 8lbs 12oz.

Welcome little man! You can't even imagine how loved you and your fat little cheeks already are.

Waiting for Superman

2011-03-06T18:03:00.006-06:00

There are so many things that have been running through my brain lately. I think this is probably one of my most personal train of thought posts that I've ever done. You'd think I have been hiding in a cave, though, barely any contact with the blog-o-world. But I've been working really hard implementing some of the thinks that I learned at my photography conference last week, and catching up at work.

One of the things that I've been thinking about was a documentary that Ryan and I watched this week, have any of you seen Waiting for Superman? It's been out for a while, we just got around to seeing it. It is about the state of the schools in America, and the decline of them.

They brought up some really interesting points about tenure, and the train of thought that bad communities create bad schools. But instead proposes that bad schools create bad communities.

There have been a lot of things lately that have been bothering me about the attitudes of our country. And with-out going all politio on you, I just feel like so many people have a sense of entitlement. I feel like so many people in my generation think they have a right to succeed with out the motivation to work hard.

Don't get me wrong, I believe in the idea that all people should have the equal opportunity to succeed. I believe that if Person A has the dedication and skill, there should not be anything that holds them back-- which is why we have scholarships and financial aid. But I also believe that person B doesn't deserve to have the same lot in life with-out the same amount of dedication and skill.

I know many people can look at me and say that I grew up privileged, and in a lot of ways I was given a better chance to succeed because I was blessed to grow up in a community and family that could provide me with good opportunities. I do see truth in that.

But I also see the truth in that our country was built on people who worked hard. Who knew the importance of education. Who sacrificed so much to have an education, and it was precious. And in many ways I feel like our country's growth has been stunted by the red tape of special interest groups.

I also know that there are people who don't have the same opportunities because of circumstances in their lives. In the documentary, there was a woman who understood the importance of education so deeply that even though she was a single mom living in a poor community, she was spending $500 a month to send her child to private school to get a good education. It's the stories like that that break my heart. I can not imagine the amount of sacrifice it must have took to write that check every month. That would be a huge sacrifice for Ryan and I, and there are two of us.

Anyway, all that to say, the movie really made me feel like there needs to be a change in our school system and society. Tenure, like many things, started out as a good school of thought. But has morphed into something that encourages mediocrity and stagnate ambition.

But overall, I think the heart of the issue is that we need parents and communities who care. I think that is where it all begins-- in the home.

Have y'all seen it? What are your thoughts?

2920 Project

2011-03-05T15:26:00.002-06:00

So for any of you who know me, I am so terrible at 365 projects. I’ve started two, finished none. But I completely admire this dude... he did a 2920 project where he took a photo of himself every day for 8 years! Kind of cool to get to see how he has changed!

I like his pirate phase, too.

Out and About

2011-02-21T02:02:00.000-06:00

I'm out this week, in the most bazaar place I've ever been. Anyone recognize??

Selfish Post: Design in a Bag

2011-02-11T07:30:00.001-06:00

Okay, I'm going to be honest here. Most of the time I blog selfishly. Because I want to remember things. I have a horribly terrible memory, and I like having archives of things and personal experiences available in one place for me.

So, this is a selfish post. Because I want to remember these because I think they're so cool, and perfect for the ridiculously visual person like me. Design in a Bag! The name dangerously reminds me of a certain SNL skit, but the idea I think is pretty brilliant. In their own words, design in a bag^® is an online design resource that takes the guesswork out of putting together a cohesive look for your kitchen project. We provide proven recipes to help create your ultimate kitchen. So, basically, you buy a sample bag that has a couple of different tile option, paint swatches, design ideas and a shopping list of where you can go to buy the stuff! Originally for kitchens, they also have bathroom bags.

So, someday, if/when we ever redo our tiny little master bathroom, I want to buy this bag:

It's even called the FAIR oaks. It's a sure sign that it's meant for our bathroom.

Ode to My Glee Pandora Station

2011-02-10T18:07:00.000-06:00

An original composition by Stefanie Appleton & Ely Fair

oh glee Pandora station. you're so good to me

providing me your musical glories without a fee

How would I survive the long work day

without Finn and Rachel Berry singing my way?

Only with an occasional song by the original Queen

But throw in a Little Mermaid song to redeem

The perfect combination of emotional ballads and hip hop hits

Just like Brittany’s dance moves – too legit to quit

Your catchy tunes make me think I can sing

Until I’m brought back to reality by the sound of my squawking

Don’t even get me started on your awesome holiday songs

They make me wish it were Christmas, all year-long

When I need a mid-day pick stronger than a Cup of Joe

You’re my saving grace, I can feel your halo, halo, halo

Personally, I find Katy Perry’s music to be quite weak

But sing her songs on the show and I’m your biggest gleek.

Song from Kanye and Britney, Madonna and Sting

Oh Glee Pandora station, how you make my heart sing!

My Editing Buddy

2011-02-05T17:22:00.000-06:00

Today has be a lazy, photo editing kind of day. Me and my editing buddy spent some quality time together.

Yep, he even has his own chair. And he keeps a bone in the cup holder. And only distracts me every 30 seconds or so for some pets. And his doggy lips are funny. What a great editing buddy I have.

Snow Days!

2011-02-02T21:33:00.000-06:00

Here in the OKC we got a nice, thick blanket of snow. So the hubs and I have been doing all sorts of fun things-- like playing wii Mario Kart, watching movies, and TAXES. Ugh.

One of the nice things about snow is that it's a natural make-it-cold-fast for our fresh squeezed OJ.

And Pete gets snow mustaches.

But doesn't make for exciting blog posts. Hope you all stayed warm and safe!

Do you have yours?

2011-01-27T22:19:00.000-06:00

Do you have you have your Keep It Local Card? I think that it's really important to support local business. Maybe it's because I'm a local business myself, but I really think it's because they have something to offer that no place else has.

Las night I was at Irma's Burgers (mmmmm, onion rings), and I was happy to get my Keep It Local card! It was just $10 that goes to support local businesses, and you can get discounts at great places all around town including some of my favorites: Collected Thread, Irma's Burgers, Cuppies and Joe, Sushi Neko, and more!

I know you want one now, go ou get one at www.keepitlocalok.com.

Living Green

2011-01-25T00:19:00.000-06:00

On the way to pick up my Sushi tonight I was listening to NPR (yeah...yuppi, I know). TheStory.org was on, and they were interviewing a man who does green building. I was so interested in it that I wanted to come home and blog about it. But I am ridiculously terrible at remembering things, so I would recommend that you take a listen www.thestory.org.

For When You Need a Brain Break

2011-01-22T23:30:00.000-06:00

This is a fun little quiz you can take to give your brain a break from the madness of life during your day.

My design style is apparently Old Money Extravagance. Yeah, that's right. I always knew I was should have been royalty. :)

New Product

2011-01-20T22:53:00.000-06:00

So, I was at Bed Bath and Beyond tonight, and I remembered that we needed laundry detergent. BB&B didn't really have a lot of options, but I did find this little guy:

I don't absolutely love the smell (but there was also an unscented and peony scent that might be good), but what I do LOVE is that it's super concentrated and has a pump bottle. You can't tell from this pic that I jacked from the internet, but it's actually a pretty small container, about the size of a hand soap container. Four pumps for a large load, and no more gooey detergent caps running down the side of the container.

I think it would be a wonderful gift for high school graduate-- give them an embroidered towl, a bag of quarters and this pump detergent. Fun!

And it all Came Crashing Down

2011-01-19T20:04:00.000-06:00

Literally. As I sat in my parents car (borrowed because mine doesn’t have heat at the moment) in Monday morning go to Walgreens to get flu medicine for Ryan, my wooden garage door split at the windows, and in result rained shards of glass all over the car. Awesome. Note: Ryan ran and checked to make sure Pete was okay and hadn’t gotten hurt, not me. Yeah, I know where I stand.

Anyway, so poor, sickly Ryan and I spent our MLK day off shopping for new garage doors. Which is not how I envisioned my Monday Funday, but I suppose I do feel lucky that it happened on a day that Ryan was at home with me, otherwise I would have been stuck in the garage and wouldn’t know what to do. And I’m thankful I was inside the car, and not outside getting a glass shower.

Anyway, I chose a garage door design that I’ve seen that I like a lot, but they didn’t have a color that I liked to go with our house at the moment, so we went ahead and got white so they would be easy to paint. Now I need some help—we decided to paint our house this summer while Ryan is off for school, but I’m terrible at choosing colors.

This is our house:

This is color is what I’m thinking, a warm grey with a slight green tint and white accents:

These are some other houses I like:

Do y’all think the greenish grey would look good? Or do you think it would make our house look cold? What color do you think we should do accents? Do I need to change the red door color?? So many things to think about, I’m stressed.

So, in conclusion, we have decided that the month of January hates the Fairs. All the crappy things happen in January for us. And the feeling is rather mutual at the moment.

But, so I end on a more pleasant note, here is some house eye candy that I have saved over the years.

Wow.

2011-01-15T17:00:00.001-06:00

One of my girlfriends from college posted this video on her blog, and it really touched me. And by touched me, I mean tears streaming down my face.

I had never seen Kelle Hampton's blog before (and I thought I cried hard during the video, it was nothing compared to her birth story). I think one of the reasons why her video and story was so powerful is that she was so raw and honest about her feelings when she first found out she had a daughter with down-syndrome. I feel like she said the things that most parents actually feel, but is hard to admit out loud. Even to yourself, let alone in front of other people, putting it out there for anyone to hear. That's scary.

But also so freeing. I can imagine how relieved someone else feeling the same things might feel to see someone, who obviously is head over heels in love with her daughter, had some of the same disappointment and embarrassment that they might have felt. But also se how in so many ways her daughter is to be celebrated for her differences. So full of life, and so full of love.

She has started a ONEder fund to " spread awareness and create more opportunities for the world to understand that we are more alike than different." I encourage you to not eat lunch out one day next week, and donate.

Space Man Stew

2011-01-15T11:46:00.000-06:00

Ok, a little part of my inside hurts sharing something that was produced by McDonalds...but have you seen the space man stew commercial??

I LOVE the illustration in it. I was trying to figure out who Illustrated it, and I couldn't really. But I love that style of illustration. In college I look some illustration classes with my graphic design major. I actually really enjoyed it, and most of my work in college was much more illustrative than photographic. Which is kind of ironic.

Anyway, one of the things on my 'bucket list' is to illustrate a children's story. Maybe someday when I have kids I can do that for them.

Now I want some french fries.

The evolution of our House: The Dining Room

2011-01-13T22:17:00.000-06:00

I'm not sure if I've ever mentioned it before, but I love houses. It would really surprise me if I hadn't. Even though we already bought a house almost 2 years ago, I still look at listings on zillow. I dream of having a home with oceans of natural light and interesting architecture that allows me to have a whole wall of book shelves with a rolling ladder, and I would sing and roll around on it like Belle.

I'm a first impression girl. For sure. I believe that 90% of the time the first impression you make is the one that sticks with a person. Which is rather unfortunate for me since I'm bit of an awkward muffin. But my first impression of our house was dark and dreary-- the fellow who owned it before us loved black. His bedroom had black furniture, black bedspread, black sheets, even black curtains.

So I think I've been stuck in the mindset that our house is dark and dreary always. And I hope this doesn't sound like I am being unthankful for the wonderful provision that we have been blessed with. I love my home because it is sturdy, and it is solid, and it provides us with room to stretch our legs, and it has a great layout for having people over (probably my most favorite thing is how well it lends to parties), and it is in a, what I think, is a gem of a neighborhood tucked away where most people don't just drive by. and I love that we have a great backyard for Pete to play in. And, especially lately, I feel so blessed to have a warm place to stay. I know not all people have that. There are so many things I am thankful for. But I wouldn't necessarily say the style of my house is my taste. But we are working on it.

But I believe I had my first breakthrough with our abode last week. I bought some flowers from the local flower store, stuck them on the table, and thought to myself..."Hmmm, I think I really like this room. I think this room and I could be friends."

So this is how the previous owner had it:

And here it is with a womanly touch:

It was definitely a work in progress. Mainly because I'm cheap. Most everything was bought on major sale or craigslist. I'm still looking for a rug, but man, those sure are expensive! But overall I'm happy with it, except I don't know what to do in the bay window. Any suggestions?? (I know, I'm never pleased...)

2010 in iPhone Photos

2011-01-09T20:51:00.000-06:00

So I mentioned before that one of my 2011 New Year Promises is to take more everyday photos. Well, my phone has been the place that I've been taking my everyday photos. So, it was the best way for me to sum up 2010!! (In no particular order)

Ryan Got wranglers :)

"Santa" made a visit on Christmas Eve.

Christmas

The leaves...the day after we raked the first time.

Visiting Amy in Minesota.

On the roof of the Cox Center. Terrifying.

Devon Tower being built.

The Darrough's visit.

Cami breaks down, the boys fix her.

Beckett helps :)

Aaron eats tiny ice cream.

Florida!

Our first win at Lost Ogle Trivia!

Mel comes home :)

Office party at Orange Leaf.

Taking care of the Hall chickens.

We get the photobooth in. Big umbrellas.

We teach Pete to drink out of a straw...

We go to Kamps 100th birthday party.

Favorite Co-op pick up. Peaches!

Boone comes to visit

Lori comes to visit. For the New Moon showing.

Krissy's birthday party.

The appletons help us move furniture.

Mom's birthday dinner at flips.

The little old couple in the movie the day before Thanksgiving. We decided that would be our new tradition into our old age :)

Lunch and a play with the Fair women.

Megan comes to visit!

San Francisco trolly car ride.

Ryan's first year teaching!!

Sus visits.

Boone visits!

I hit a car :(

Flaming Lips private concert.

Boone! We really like him.

Anniversary ice cream.

Greys season finale.

New door!

April hail storm.

Birthday dinner and Pete surprises me in the parking garage!

Visiting Grandma and Grandpa in Illinois.

Easter Chat with Lori.

Aaron's curling birthday party.

I meet the cat with thumbs.

44 bags of leaves. ugh.

February snow storm.

Pete's cone. He broke it, fixed with duck tape.

trip to Denver.

My birthday peonies :)

Pete watching for ducks.

US conference of Mayors. Sweet friends eat in my office because I was too busy to leave it. For days.

Kate visits :)

A full, fun iPhone year :) Now I'm watching the old True Grit. We saw the new one this weekend, it was excellent. xoely

2011 New Year Promises

2011-01-09T17:39:00.000-06:00

Yep, again, a little late on this. And if you are confused by New Year Promises vs. New Year Resolution, you can hear my thoughts here. But these are the things I'd like to try to do this year:

Be better about writing Thank You notes. Typically in the past I've been a champion at this (example: we had all of our thank you notes written and mailed with in 2 weeks of our wedding. Boo-yah!). But the past year or two I've kind of let myself slide.
Take more everyday pictures. Sometimes I feel like because I am a photographer, every photo I shoot has to be, well, professional. So, I think that because of that I miss out of actually taking photos and sharing them because I feel pressure that if I share them, they have to be beautiful, perfectly exposed and watermarked. But I know how much I love and enjoy going through old photos of my parents and grandparents, and maybe someday someone will want to see some of Ryan and I.
Take my camera with me more often on a day to day basis. This kind of goes hand in hand with taking more everyday photos.
Make a wedding album for our wedding. I know, it's been almost 4 years, don't judge me.
And this is going to be the biggie that I'm not so sure about considering the past few weeks-- I want to post at least 3 times a week. eeeek! So that means stay tuned, I will have to post one more time today....

Anyway, anyone else make New Year Promises?

New Year Recap

2011-01-08T16:57:00.001-06:00

Alright, so I'm a bit behind on the New Year post. But better late than never, I suppose!

This year Ryan and I were so busy at Christmas time, we just kind of forgot to make New Year plans. Usually we ring in the New Year with my buddies from High School, but sad story, most of them couldn't make it into town this year. I knew sooner or later their would come a point when we started to all make our own family units, and everyone coming back to OKC wouldn't be an option. So, this year, after 11 years, was the first year we didn't have our Annual Progressive dinner. Tear.

(Note: Lara, please stop reading here and skip to after the pictures for a special post just for you...)

Anyway, because there wasn't much going on this year, Ryan and I did a low key New Years. Dinner and movie.

Ryan enjoyed a beer from his favorite local brewery.

And I had my classic Coca-Cola

Hope that you had a wonderful, and exciting, New Year!

And This is for you Lara:

So, Ryan and I were so busy at Christmas time this year, that, really we forgot to make plans. So we were just hanging out on New Years day and thought to ourselves: "Selves-- Let's do something big this year. I mean, really big. It has been an awesome year, and we can't just let it fizzle out. So we got on the phone and charters a personal plane to take us on an adventure of our life. We'll let the pictures do the talking.

I mean, really we only did 3 things, so it's nothing compared to our everyday life. But I hope it was exciting enough to live vicariously through, Lara :)

HAPPY NEW YEAR!!!!

Patty Cake Kitties

2010-12-27T23:01:00.000-06:00

OK, I know I haven't been around in a while. Let me placate you with a cat video.

Oh Christmas Tree

2010-12-10T07:32:00.001-06:00

So, in general, I don't decorate for seasons/holidays. Mainly because I'm lazy. I like to say it's because I'm a busy girl, and don't have time, but really the reason is because I don't want to spend the time to do it. I am impressed with those people who have lovely decor for each season. Not me, sorry. You come over, and you get the same ol' stuff all year round-- except for Christmas.

I love decorating for Christmas. My house just feels so complete when it is decked out in the red and green, and I really get excited. And a tad bit crazy. Like making sure everyone has the exact same wrapping, except different bows so I know who's is who. Yeah, I know. I promise I'm not really like this with anything else, so don't fear for the sanity of my future children.

Anyway, usually I am a hunting widow the day after Thanksgiving (meaning, I am alone while my hubby is off 'catching' woodland animals), so I usually spend that night putting my tree up all my lonesome, just me and my Frank Sinatra holiday cd. But this year I thought maybe you'd like to join me for the decorating!

This is my first attempt at a stop motion video (and ever posting something on YouTube, this is a big night for me), so don't judge me on my video skills just yet, I'm still learning!

And, PS, No -- that is not dip in my pocket. Who do you think I am? Come on guys! It's a lens cap.

I think that I may rename the blog

2010-12-09T21:53:00.001-06:00

to Stuff Stefanie Shows Me.

Yeah, I really should. Because the past few posts have been things she showed me. But I couldn't help but share this. If she ever starts her own, I will become completely and utterly uninteresting.

I love JCrew. I really do. And I found out today that at one point in time they had paired up with another thing that I love. Lab puppies. Did you know they used to have a dog line called CrewMutts? Check these pictures out:

It's so ridiculously cute that it hurts my heart a little.

PS Kate Middleton was named as one of the top ten most interesting people by Barbara Walters. Watching it now. Yipee. Can't wait until April 29th! I'm still waiting for my call from the Palace to book me for photos-- the time difference must be what's keeping us from connecting. Must be.

Weird News

2010-12-08T18:39:00.000-06:00

Lots of weird news lately specifically in Oklahoma. Did you guys see any of these?

Scantily clad woman has troubles in OK airport security - KFOR

Two Women Arrested for Using Their Fat to Steal Merchandise

And, not in Oklahoma, but by far my favorite:

Scientists Dressed As Pandas Release Baby Pandas Into Wild

Best job ever, how can I get in on that? Thanks to my news dealers, Stef and Sommer, for this interesting post.

Cool TV

2010-11-29T20:46:00.000-06:00

So, Ryan and I don't have cable. I know, I know, if you haven't died of shock already, you can hear about all of the fancy new over the air things that are happening. Over the past few months, a couple new music channels have popped up. It's actually pretty exciting, I never had MTV or VH1, so it's a whole new world for me. Although the music videos are from the 90's and before. My favorite is The Cool TV. It is pretty entertaining seeing what big haired music star will pop up. And it is really helping me to put artists with their music!

I liked it until I saw this tonight:

This video terrified me on many levels. But what scared me the most was not the floaty Pat head in the beginning, or the green gloves that look like monster hands in the middle, or the stoic singing children in the end. It is the creepy drummer man who dances looney in the wife beater. This hair and flailing arms really just did me in. I may have nightmares.

PS I'm also mad that the Estee Lauder commercial features Regina. So wrong. Maybe I just need to quit watching TV.

And I Don't Even Care.

2010-11-22T22:38:00.000-06:00

It's not over Thanksgiving yet, and I've started decorating for Christmas. Tee hee hee.

I might have gotten a tad carried away:

But Pete's ready for Santa.

But thinks Christmas tastes bad.

Hope you're feeling in the holiday spirit as much as I am! xoelyl

I'M SO EXCITED!!!!

2010-11-18T18:29:00.000-06:00

I'm not going to lie, I'm super excited about HP7!!! And if you don't know what that means, you probably won't fully appreciate this post. You may be like my mother, who is convinced that my soul is in jeopardy because I'm excited to watch a movie about magic. Oh, and don't mention the vampire movies to her, either ;)

I'm not going to see it until late tomorrow night. Last HP movie I did the whole midnight thing, and then was falling asleep at my desk the whole next day. So don't tell me anything about it if you're seeing it before 10pm central time zone! Here's so HP cast fun in the meantime (again, thank you Stef).

Movie Trailers - Movies Blog

A Royal Love Story

2010-11-17T20:04:00.000-06:00

Is anyone else as interested in Prince William and Kate Middleton as I am? I blame it on you, Stephanie, for getting me hooked.

It's like every little girls dream, to become a princess! I'm watching the interview now, I must get back to it...

Octoberfart

2010-11-11T19:05:00.001-06:00

My friend showed me the Damn You Auto Correct! website today. Hilarious. Mainly because my autocorrect makes me say stupid things all the time, too. I think this one is my favorite.

It made me laugh really hard. And then made my mouth hurt from my dental work. Worth it.

On a More Positive Note

2010-11-10T22:45:00.001-06:00

I didn't want to leave my last post in the blog-o-sphere to be not so positive, so I thought I'd post this pic of my sister in law. Because I like her a lot. And she makes me laugh. And let's me dress her up and take pictures of her. Much like Pete. :)

That's the way to my heart. Make me laugh and let me play dress up. And chocolate chip cookies.

xoely

Enough.

2010-11-10T01:12:00.002-06:00

So I'm uploading some files, and I'm up WAAAY too late to be blogging on a day when I've thought way too much. But here I am. Thinking. And awake.

I've been thinking about 'enough.' What that means, and how so often I compare myself to it. And it's not even anything tangible, but something I desire greatly to be. All too often I feel like I'm chasing the horizon, but don't even know what is so great about getting past it.

I feel like 'enough' sits on my shoulder every day and wishers into my ear all the things that it's defeating me with.

You're not creative enough,
you're not positive enough,
you're not happy enough,
you're not thin enough.
You don't get enough sleep (which probably is true...),
you don't have enough (which I KNOW is not true),
you don't give enough,
you don't pay enough attention,
you don't take Pete on enough walks,
you don't cook enough,
you don't save enough,
you haven't done enough of your Christmas shopping,
you don't work enough,
you don't shave your legs enough,
you don't remember enough.
You're not kind enough,
you're not tidy enough,
you're not open enough,
you're not funny enough,
you're not a good enough speller.

And then he gets personal:
you're not a good enough wife,
you're not a good enough photographer,
you're not a good enough friend.

Enough, I think you're pretty exhausting. And as I type this, I don't know why I spend so much energy focusing on you.

I know I'm not the only one who feels this way sometimes, if not all the time. And I invite you to repeat after me:

Dear Enough:

If you would kindly step out of my brain, I would be greatly obliged. Consider this your eviction. Thank you and good riddens.

xoxo me

Inspired.

2010-11-09T19:00:00.000-06:00

I love this series from Laurent Lavender. I saw it over on Design Crush, and fell in love. So neat and creative.

A Pete Picture for Lori & Sam :)

2010-11-02T22:17:00.000-05:00

I hope you all got out and exercised your rights as an American citizen! Pete does too!

xoely

ps If you look reeeeaaaallly close in his eyes, you can see Ryan and I bribing him with yummies.

Happy Halloween 2010!

2010-10-31T23:43:00.000-05:00

My niece and nephew always have the best costumes, and take the best pictures. Last year:

This year I got to be in on the fun:

I promise they don't cry all the time (you can see some sweet ones from my 365 project here), it's just my favorite pictures when they do. I think they're hilarious. Dressed up kids crying are just funny.

I'm going to be a horrible parent....

A toast with toast!

2010-10-20T12:07:00.002-05:00

On the way to work, I was listening to NPR and they did a story about a lady in England who made a 9,852 slice of toast portrait of her mother-in-law for her birthday. You can read the whole story here.

I salute Laura Hadland for her efforts! I'm impressed by your dedication and creativity!

Can You Still Feel the Butterflies?

2010-10-16T23:58:00.000-05:00

I have a terrible memory. Terrible.

But, I have sense memories sometimes that are very vivid. Like, if you smell a certain smell, it makes you think of a certain memory and feeling?

One of my sense memories is when I hear "For Me this is Heaven" from the Clarity album by Jimmy Eat World. One of my most favorite albums. The best from Jimmy, in my opinion. Ryan and I were driving back from Tulsa tonight after a fabulous photoshoot (be watching for it on the pro blog soon!)

Although Ryan and I danced to The Luckiest by Ben Folds at our wedding, I would say "For Me this is Heaven" is our song.

But it's not necessarily the memory that I have attached to that song. When I hear that song, it takes me back to my first semester of Senior year. That semester I was taking 16 hours (which in art class world, that's really more like 21 hour class time since art classes are 6 hours a week). But that semester I was taking wood block print making.

I wasn't actually very good at it, but I loved it. LOVED IT. Creating art is something very satisfying to me, because it's creating something meaningful out of non meaningful things. Meaning, when I have a paintbrush and canvas and paints, they don't have meaning. But using them all as tools together, it can become something that has feeling and movement and meaning. And there was something about carving layers and layers into a piece of wood, and then using a press the size of a large closet to print it, and it is all a little bit of mystery to how it is going to turn out, that is totally and utterly appealing to me.

I specifically remember one night when I was alone with the gigantor press, just him and me and my Jimmy Eat World cd. And I had my cute little apron on, messy with ink, rolling papers through the press. And I was completely content. And there aren't many times in my life that I can remember being completely and utterly happy in the spot that I am.

I tend to be one of those people who looks 4 steps ahead. I can't wait until I get a real house, and then when I'm there, I can't wait until I get a house that I like better, and then I'm sure I won't be able to wait until I move into a neighborhood that has a better school district. Or, I really want to book one wedding this year, but I won't really feel validated until I book 15 in a year, and then I need to get a studio, and then I'll be a real photographer.

Anyway, that's why I love that song. It reminds me that sometimes I need to just be happy where I am.

Do any of you have sense memories??

For the Other Design Nerds...

2010-10-15T17:25:00.004-05:00

I saw these over on How About Orange. If I owned a design studio, these would be my conference room chairs for sure.

And these would be our coffee mugs:

And this is how I'd get there:

And this would be our christmas wreth:

And these would be the luggage tags:

To take on our trip to the Pantone Hotel:

And the boys could wear these cuff links (i wish they'd make earing like these..._:

And match their iPhone covers:

and I'm seriously thinking about changing my credit card to Visa so I can get one of these:

(most of these pics were found on If It's Hip it's Here)

Rough Day.

2010-10-06T22:40:00.000-05:00

Today was one of them.

But one bright spot was I finally got some pictures from the wedding in Florida posted on the pro-blog! I try not to double post on my personal & professional blog, so I highly encourage you to hop on over and take a looksy!

xoely

Who's Excited!

2010-10-05T17:20:00.001-05:00

Last week I submitted a photo to Pioneer Woman's photo contest, and it got picked as a 'favorite!' The theme was actually Your Favorite Photos, and I chose one from Lauren's maternity photoshoot a while back (yes, she has a cute little belly under that bowl of cherries!!). It's funny how you can have a hundred photo shoots, but still come back to one that may be your all time favorite. I had this session when I was FIRST starting out, was still learning the ins and outs of my camera, and didn't even have a professional camera yet.

But I think because there is so much love in this family, and Lauren is just so sweet, I always come back to this shoot as one of my favorites. I know my skill has improved LOADS, but no matter how much you learn and equipment you buy, nothing replaces creativity and heart.

Anyway, I was just super excited and wanted to share!!!! xoely

I Promise...

2010-09-23T12:17:00.000-05:00

I won't always post videos. But this was too good, I had to pass it on.

You only get one shot...

White Knuckles

2010-09-20T17:30:00.001-05:00

My friend Stefanie sent me this, and it made me really happy :)

How'd they get all those dogs to do that? Incredible. Thanks for sharing Stef!

Dear Clients:

2010-09-20T12:04:00.000-05:00

Somebody please buy this hat (or any other on this site), I want to photograph a kiddo in it SO BAD:

(photo from sweetpeatoadtots etsy site)

I'm dying, it's so cute. I will love you forever, and even offer some free prints.

Sincerely,

Ely

4 Questions

2010-09-13T18:00:00.001-05:00

I was tagged by the lovely over at the Hiku of Id, and I can't lie, I'm really excited. I feel so cool to be tagged to answer her four questions. And it's good that she gave grace to those of us who are slow, because I just realized I had been tagged :) So here it goes!

A. Tell me a story about a vivid memory you have when you were in the third grade.

Oh geez. First off, I have a terrible, terrible memory. Really bad. Like, I really don't remember things vividly before 6th grade. And sometimes my childhood buddies will bring things up from HIGH SCHOOL, and I have absolutly no recognition of them.

But, with all that said, I remember getting reprimanded in 3rd grade by my dad, Walter. He always had this thing that he would make fun of my teachers names. Kindergarden, First, Second, and now Third grade, he would as me "how was Mrs. (insert silly teachers name) class today?" And now I know he was just being a sweet dad, trying to be involved in my day. But for some reason, it just really irritated me.

My third grade teacher was Miss Weathers. And she was my first young, pretty teacher I had ever had. So naturally, I thought she was the bee's knees. And my dad would call her Miss Weather-Bee. And it jus made me soooo mad. So one day, we were in his big gold Buick driving through Kicking Bird Square and I told him of my distaste for my teachers nickname, and I came back with "I'm going to call you Wall-Turd from now on." So I got in trouble for saying turd. But i think he secretly thought it was funny.

B. If you could go back in time and visit the you who was a senior in high school the night of your graduation, what would you tell them? Would you give them any advice?

I've actually been thinking about this a little lately. And I think this is going to sound bad, but bear with me. I would have told myself to have a little more fun in college. I was pretty strait laced all through-out my time in college. I don't think I did enough crazy things. I had a good time, and in general a good college experience, but I think I could have kissed few more boys, and drank a few more (or any) beers :)

C. If you could go back in time and have a drink with any person in history, who would you visit and what would you drink? (If you choose a Biblical person that's fine, but you also have to answer with a nonBiblical person, too.)

This is the one that I had to really think about the most. And I wish that I had a really inspirational answer. But I think it would be Leonardo Da Vinci. I'm a little embarrassed to tell you this...but I love the movie Ever After. Yes, the cinderella story with Drew Barrymore. Anyway, they depict Da Vinci as one of those people who have great vigor for life, and I feel like it must be true with all of the things that he was interested in! Wikipedia credits him to being" Italian polymath: painter, sculptor, architect, musician, scientist, mathematician, engineer, inventor, anatomist,geologist, cartographer, botanist and writer." Plus he's an Italian. How much more interesting than you get? And I would drink lemonade, and he would drink wine. Because I imagine us sitting on a second story Itailian villa looking over a vinyard basking in the eventing sun. And wine seems appropriate, but I don't like it.

D. What children's book would you say best describes your personality? Why?

Remember when I said that I have a terrible memory?? Well...I don't really remember the characters of children's books very well. This was my favorite question, but I feel like I can't give a good answer. But sometimes I feel like I'm the mouse from "If you give a Mouse a Cookie." Not necessarily because I'm always asking people for things (or at least I hope I don't!), but because I feel like I'm always looking forward to the next bigger and better thing and sometimes I forget to live in the moment and love and appreciate where I am in life.

Ryan says I'm Cindy Loo Who because I'm sweet and little and innocent. I really have the wool over his eyes, huh?? :)

Sooo, the other part of playing tag is tagging others. Sooo, tag, you're it.
Candice from Chia Seed Me
Katie from My So Called Life
Lauren from Reflections on Life's Little Treasures
And Tags Backs Haiku of the Id!

Here are your questions:
1. What is your guilty pleasure television show?
2. If you could be invited to any celebrities wedding, which one would you want to go to (past or future)?
3. So far in your life, what have you done that you are the most proud of yourself for?
4. What do you think the greatest invention of your lifetime is, and why?

This was fun!!!

You're Invited!

2010-09-13T12:15:00.001-05:00

Has anyone ever participated in a 365 project? It's where you take a photo every day for a year. A group of friends and friends of friends have started one, and this is your official invite to join! We are a group of people, all at different points in our photography skills. The only thing we really have in common is that we are all committing to it. There are 3 rules:

1) You have to take a photo everyday for a complete year

2) Upload them at least once a week

3) Have fun!

If you’re worried about not knowing what to take pics of, we have even come up with weekly theme ideas. You don’t have to use them, but if you are an assignment person like me, it’s perfect.

I think it will be really fun, and I hope you will join us! The first day of our project will be 9/20/2010. The last day will be 9/20/20111. Our flickr group is “4 Seasons of Photographs.” Find us and join, or leave a comment and I’ll direct you to the right place!

Grandma Gruel

2010-09-12T23:26:00.000-05:00

On Friday I attended the funeral of a very special lady in my life. A lady who's home I spend almost every Sunday of my high school having lunch at, laughing around her dining room table with her family--both biological and 'adopted.' She was the matriarch of a family that is extraordinary, and I know a lot of that is due to her.

It's funny what you learn about people after they are gone. She was the daughter youngest daughter of Japaneese immigrants. I always knew she was couragaous because God gave her two rambunctious boys to parent. But I learned how much courage she had to be a young woman and she moved away from her family in Montana, to Washington, and then to NYC and then to Japan, all during/just after World War II. How scary it must have been, but what great things she experienced because she did.

I always knew she loved God. But I learned that she gave her life to Christ when she was 5 years old, and when she found out that she had cancer, she decided that she didn't want treatment. But she DID want a lobster dinner. Because she wasn't scared to pass on, because she knew who she belonged to and where she was going.

I knew she was hospitable. Not only because I spent many a sunday's at her dining room table-- Grandma Gruel at one end, and Grandpa Gruel at the other. And it was like the two of them were surrounding us with their love and support. But one thing her son said in the Eulogy was that she always 'made space to people to be themselves.' And I think that is so true. And when you looked at the people sitting in the church, I bet that she touched every single one of their lives by loving who they are, in whatever place in life they are.

I knew she was a cute little lady. But I didn't know what a hot mama she was! This was one of the photos that they had framed at the funeral. So gorgeous!

I always knew she was wise. Some other things that touched me about her from the eulogy was that she taught her sons that they should always have "hyacinth for the Soul." That no matter whee you are in life, you always need to have a little bit set aside to do things that make life worth living. Spend a little to go to a movie, or have a drink with a friend. And she always gave us girls relationship advice-- that we needed to wait for a Trout, and not settle for a bottom-sucker fish. And I remember, when I told Grandma & Grandpa Gruel I was getting married, the first question they asked was if he was a trout. :)

The thing that really made me think the most about the funeral was the phrase 'ego integrity vs. despair.' It's basically that when someone comes to the end of their life, they either look back and see that they lived their life the best and fullest that they could have, or they are in despair that they have come to the end and it is too late to do things right. And one thing that gives me comfort as I grieve her passing is that she definitely had ego integrity. She looked back and felt good about her life.

Saturday would have been her and Grandpa's 60th wedding anniversary. Grandpa went to meet his maker about 3 years ago, and I know she has missed him greatly since. I kind of like to think that she wanted to spend that day with him.

I have a knot in my chest and tears in my eyes thinking about how next time I go to her home she won't be sitting at the end of the dining room table, looking over all the people that she loved. But I am so thankful that she was part of my life, and I hope to be like her as I travel through the rest of my life. I hope that I can love people well, and live courageously, and invite people to be themselves in my life. I hope I can look back at the way I have lived my life, and feel good about. And I'm so thankful that I was able to learn all of these things through knowing and loving Grandma.

Bad News Bears

2010-09-09T22:24:00.000-05:00

Oh no. This is bad news for me. I saw this on one of the blogs I read, More things from Martha to lust after. She launched a new line with Home Depot for Kitchen cabinets. Dang you Martha for being making me love you so!

Please, of Please, can I have this kitchen someday? I love the little sitting area, and the open cabinets, and then beat board (is that what it's called) ceiling. The grey cabinets. The simple handles. I even love the green color. Not to mention the farm house sinks that I'm obsessed with.

In particular, I'm obsessed with kitchen design. I think it's because I don't particularly love mine. It is a very workable space, and I'm so blessed to HAVE a kitchen to cook in, so I feel bratty wishing i had something different. The owner before us painted the cabinets black and put a dark counter top in. It looks nice, It just doesn't get a lot of natural light, so it feels very dark and heavy. And we are afraid to paint it. 1- because we are lazy and don't want to do the work. 2- they were professionally painted, so I don't think we'd do as good of job.

Here are some other kitchens I love. Don't know where the images are from, they just reside in my 'dream house' file on my computer. I'm sorry (and jealous) if this is your kitchen and you're not getting credit for it.

Don't you love the rounded cabinets on that last one?? xoely

Thoughts....

2010-09-01T12:47:00.000-05:00

So my co-worker texted me this morning:

“If you could have any job with no worries about money, location, etc. what would it be?”

Woa Traci, that’s heavy for 8:28 in the morning. Especially since we share an office, but have an unspoken rule that neither of us really talk before 10:30 because we KNOW we both don’t function well in the morning.

Anyway, it caught me very off guard, so it made me think a lot. My initial thought was “duh, a photographer.” Which is awesome, because it helps me to know that I really love what I’ve been doing. But then I thought a little more…if I could do ANYTHING, without worries, without consequences, just lived it up, what would I do?

Could I just be a professional creative hobbyist? Do some photography work here, some wedding invitation design here, some wedding planning here, some interior decorating here. I think that would be awesome. But maybe a little frustrating, too, that I couldn’t dedicate all my time to that.

Then I thought…maybe I’d be a wedding stylist. Come up with a vision for a bride, and help her to chase after it. But then I got nervous that I would run out of ideas. But then, I figured out what the perfect job for me would be.

A buyer. That's what I would be. For a really fun and unique store that liked ruffles, and textures, and high class things. I could see myself in high heels and cute pencil skirts (because this is in my dream world, right? I do that there), my heels tapping on the concert floor as I came up with the vision for the new fall line. And it’s perfect because I don’t have to have the ideas, I just have to choose the good ones. And the fun of being able to mold people’s ideas of style. And see people wear/use things that I chose to put in the store. Oh yes, being a buyer would be the cat’s meow. And then eventually after I was tired of the heels and skirts, I would open my own store and just buy for my own shelves. And by shelves, I mean fun tables and mismatched book cases. And I would have a little sitting area so I could feed my friends cupcakes and milk when they came to visit.

So, I ask you: If you could have any job with no worries about money, location, etc. what would it be?

Image (of my imaginary lets) thanks to BR

Go and Do This. Now.

2010-08-30T22:47:00.002-05:00

Arcade Fire is so cool.

http://thewildernessdowntown.com/

I tried to do my house, but the address didn't work. So we did our current house for Pete. His advice was to not pee on other dogs faces. Because he did that last week. And got in B-I-G trouble.

Today is Big!

2010-08-19T08:10:00.000-05:00

So big, that I actually drug myself out of bed at 6:45 to take pictures of Ryan...on his first day of school!!!!

Isn't he the cutest :)

I am so proud! When Ryan lost his job late January of this year, it was scary and it was tough, but we decided that this was an opportunity for Ryan to really find something that he was passionate about. He had been working in insurance, which was fine, but he knew that when he looked back on his life in 50 years, he didn't want to have just spent this whole time telling people whether or not they were at fault for an accident.

So, we embarked on a journey. With the help of a dear friend (thanks Elisa!), Ryan came to realize that he really had a passion to teach. Who knew the boy who hated school, and was notorious for not going to class in college wanted to BE a teacher!

And then the hard part came. The choice. Ryan had been applying at places, the was likey going to have the opportunity to get back into the insurance business. A secure, for sure, getting a paycheck every two weeks job. And he was super tempted. But instead, we decided that him making connections and subbing in the school district he wanted to work was more important, so that he could make connections and work towards getting certified to teach.

It was all scary, especially at first, but I think that what I learned out of the situation was that we were always taken care of. Our friends and family were so awesome and supportive, and it seemed whenever we had unexpected vet bills or or owed unexpected taxes, something always came up that helped us through. An extra photography job, or a random housewarming gift. Even though our salary had been cut in half, we never felt like we were on the edge. And I am so thankful for the provision that has been given to us.

So, to finish up the story, Ryan passed his certifications tested like a superstar, but alas, the first week of August rolled around, and he still hadn't gotten a teaching job. So we geared up for another semester of teaching. But.....a week and a half ago, a teaching job opened up! Not only just a job, but the grade he wanted to teach at the exact school he wanted to teach! AND HE GOT THE JOB! Mana from Heaven, we are so pumped! And so thankful!

Now that you are over the shock of me getting up so early, here are some photos from his classroom that I snapped with my phone last night:

I'm so proud of you sweetie! Hope your first day is great!

Best Friends

2010-08-17T12:15:00.001-05:00

I think that Pete would be an excellent friend.

Roulette Piano Improv

2010-08-14T17:26:00.000-05:00

A co-worker showed me this video (I"m sure i'm way behind the game, and everyone has seen this), but have you seen this guy?? The does improv piano playing on Roulette. First off, have you heard about Roulette? It's an online video chat room that connects you to random strangers. Sounds like of shady to me, but none the less, this guy gets on and plays the piano for people. It's pretty funny, he goes by Merton.

He sounds and looks kind of like Ben Folds. Have I ever mentioned how much Ryan and I love Ben Folds? In fact, I walked down the isle to the piano music of The Luckiest. Anyway, I guess I wasn't the only one who thought that, because Ben Folds does an Ode to Merton.

I hope you enjoy Ben and much as I do. xoely

Peter Frankenstein Fair

2010-08-02T18:30:00.000-05:00

So I really try not to double post from my pro blog, but I can't help it this time. I just love this photo of Pete from our photobooth announcement too much. So here it is, double time, for your viewing pleasure...

xoely

3rd Year of Marriage

2010-07-30T18:33:00.000-05:00

It's not our anniversary, don't worry. But like most things, the Fair's are a little slow. The Fairs, meaning the Mr & Mrs. Ryan Fair household. We always have to pay extra dollars on the Redbox. When we really make an effort to go someplace early, it usually means we get there right on time. We have had the city called about our lawn being too long...speaking of which....

Our hands down favorite shot from our wedding is this one:

I know the jumping pictures are old and overdone, but I LOVE THEM. This picture makes me chuckle every time I look at it. Like, what the heck is Lindsay next to me doing with her arm? Am I even off the ground (the dress was heavy, guys)? Sister Amy totally is covering herself up. There's a mystery person behind James who was like, F this, I'm not jumping. Speaking of James there in the front, he's pissed because we took him out of the food line to take this picture. And Eric there on the end-- in the next two pictures, he just about 2 feet higher while everyone else is on their decent. I think he may be part gazelle. And really, my favorite is creepy 70's Aaron on the right side over there. I just love this picture.

Because of our affection for this photo, every year around our wedding anniversary, we try to take a jumping photo in Guthrie, where our reception was. We wanted to take Pete last year, but he was a puppy and Ryan took to heart very closely that we couldn't take him out until his puppy shots were complete, so we never got around to doing it. But this weekend we finally crammed Pete in the back of the Camero, and with him breathing in our ears the whole time, went and took our family jumping photo.

Sorry to be showy, next year I'll wear pants. xoely

I am in love with this

2010-07-27T12:45:00.001-05:00

I know, I know, I haven't posted in eons, and now two in one day!!! My lunch hour has been PACKED with blog love. Sometimes it's nice to just sit and eat at my desk and pittle around for a while.

Anyway, my lovely friend Stefanie sent me Mila's Daydreams Blog, and I'm pretty much in love with it. This mom always wondered what her little one dreamed about, so she takes a few minutes of each day imagining what goes on in little Mila's dreams. LOVE IT! I wish I had thought of it. And had a baby I could borrow.

xoxo

Encouraging Thoughts

2010-07-27T12:31:00.001-05:00

I saw this video over on blah, blah, blahg

How precious is she! And I've been in quite a funk lately. So I was thinking, maybe I should give myself a little pep talk....

I like my husband (even if he borrows my keys and I am late to work and get a crappy parking spot)
I like my dog
I like my family
I like my newly arranged office (pictures as soon as it's cleaned)
I like my co-workers -- at both jobs!
I like Cari and Garretts wedding photos
I like my new sweater from JCrew
I like that my husband is really getting into the business
I like my hair longer
I like the strawberry pie I make
I like the front door I painted
I like my new mascara
I like my handwriting (when I try)
I like my jokes

And I would like it if YOU used this time to tell me a list of things that you like about YOURSELF!

The Mother Ship of Frills!

2010-07-14T17:51:00.000-05:00

You know I love ruffles. I can’t resist them. And this is the mother ship of ruffled wedding dresses. MEOW! Think I could get away with wearing it to the company Christmas party…..

From the Mellissa Sweet Collection

Happy 4th....and 5th, and 6th, 7th & 8th...

2010-07-09T00:31:00.000-05:00

Sorry I've been a bit MIA lately, I've been an editing MACHINE lately. You can check out the bad boys who have been keeping me away from EHT lately. I am excited because I think I'm going to get to go to bed before 1 tonight, wooo-hoo!

But I did take a little break this weekend for 4th of July. I'm not a huge 'decorator for the holiday' person, but for some reason I love 4th of July decorations, so I was excited to host a party last night :) We had over some of my buds from high school. It was great to get to catch up with everyone, and gave me a great excuse to decorate, make pies, and buy flowers :)

What's more american than an ice cold coca-cola?? Don't worry, the beer was added soon after.

Pete dressed in his sunday best for company. At least while I was holding a treat over his head.

How do you like Grizzly Ryan??

After Dinner we had sparker fun trying to write our names in photos!

Can you guess the names?? Now, no cheating Ryan, Lindsay, Kristen, Josh, Brian and Me...wait...;)

Hope you all had a lovely and safe holiday weekend!

Inspired by Other Designers

2010-07-01T18:30:00.000-05:00

I am over and over again inspired by other peoples creativity. I wish I had thought of these!

These are some of the winners from Outdoor Lions nomination of the Cannes Lions International Advertising Festival, you can view the rest on the Fresh Pics Blog. Go look and be inspired, too! Thanks for sending me the link, Lori!

Not for the Faint of Heart

2010-06-25T13:20:00.000-05:00

Over and over, in photographers blogs that I read, they challenge me with the question “why do you do what you do?” Like it is the big overpowering question, the quest in life, and if I can answer that, then all of my fears, qualms, wonders, struggles in having a photography business will be solved.

And I sit there and think, “well, damn.” I don’t have a good answer. That’s just what I do. Does that mean that I am not really a photographer? I won’t succeed because I have no passion? I’ve been doing photography a long time, do I just not care anymore?

I mean, I love colors, and texture, and composition. But those things aren’t really earth moving. This is really a question I’ve been struggling with for a long time. And it’s scary to admit that because I want to be one of those people who is totally inspired, and totally an artist, and totally 100% confident in their choices.

But then I see things like this. And I remember why I pursue photography. Because it is powerful.

Well, it can be powerful. It can display emotions—happiness is mostly what I see when I take pictures. But It can also show sorry. And hope. And tell a story.

I stumbled upon this slideshow a couple of months ago. I thought about posting it then, but it was so emotional for me, I didn't. But I've been thinking about it a lot lately. And I’m just warning you, I sobbed when I watched it. So if you are tender of heart, it might not be something you’re interested in viewing.

It is a photographic documentation of the funeral of Gavin Norton, the baby of Natalie Norton, a photographer who lives in Hawaii. And it seems like a very odd thing that she asked her friend, Jonathan Canlas, to photograph the funeral of her little one. But I think she did because she understands the power of photography. And she wanted the story of the love of her little boy to be told.

Thanks to Our Dads

2010-06-19T14:22:00.000-05:00

I saw this, and immediately thought of Ryan and I. Oh, it's so true. The one that really got me was the green room part.

So, in honor of fathers day coming up, I thought I would pass it along, and pass along a giant THANK YOU to our fathers who teach us how to install doors and tell us to open our gates so that our house doesn't flood. We appreciate you and would be lost with out you. Love, ely

Who else is excited????

2010-06-18T23:43:00.000-05:00

Can't wait! In the meantime, I'm going to read the new Meyer's new short story, The Short Second Life of Bree Tanner. You can read it for free on her website until July 5.

Yeah, I own it. I love twilight.

Oh the Things I could Do....

2010-06-16T12:36:00.004-05:00

Sometimes (okay, most of the time) I wish that I were more adventurous. I wish I wasn’t so practical (stop laughing Ryan, you know what I mean). Because there are so many things that I would do if I weren’t scared. Here is a list.

Buy a cute retro RV and open a snow cone and cupcake moving shop. I’d call it “ely’s sweet eats.” There are some really cute examples on Green Weddings Shoes.

I’d be a wedding visionary. I won’t say wedding planner, because we all know my organization skills are limited. But I’d design these big ideas and themes, down to the type of J.Crew Cardigan that the bride wears in the pictures (that I take of course).

(sorry internet, i don't remember where I found this pic)

I’d buy a cool farm house in the country that people could rent for parties. I’d design, decorate, make invites, take pictures. I’d lug my mom around and she could cater. It would be a one stop party stop. But it would be the event of the year, and I would only allow one per year so that I could prepare and recuperate.

I want to do letter pressing. I have a letterpress, but it kind of intimidates me. Look at this adorable set by Flora and Fauna Press!

I would also design a windows for Anthropologie. But I only want to do this once. I think that’s all the creative that I can do for them. This one is made out of books!

I also thing commercial photography would be really fun—like photographing for a magazine. Like Martha….then I would get to see her store room….I may try to just move in there.

(pics founds here)

Now, if I could just get someone to work on that cloning process so I could have about 5 of me, I think I could handle all of that….

Lessons with the Left Handed Calligrapher

2010-06-12T00:06:00.003-05:00

Remember how I said that there was one more exciting thing that I had to share about our trip to Dallas? Welp, here it is!

I took calligraphy lessons! Ryan and I are big believers in learning. Not necessarily book knowledge, but continuing to invest in things that we are interested in. We think that it help to keep us more rounded, interesting and happy people. Ryan wants to take cooking lessons, I think that's going to be next summer's investment, and I'm very excited to give him tests in the subject :)

But this time it was my turn-- and I chose calligraphy. Well, actually it chose me. I was reading one of my favorite blogs, and Nicole Black's work was featured. She is the very talented Left Handed Calligrapher.

I had been looking for someone to teach me, and was so pleased to find that she lives near Dallas! Hundreds of miles closer than other calligraphers that I have admired. So Nicole sat down with me for an hour and a half and taught me the basics of calligraphy. She is absolutely incredible. It's like magic oozes out of her hand and makes beautiful art forms.

And one of the best parts of the lesson, too, was connecting with another young business owner. I really felt that we were in similar parts of life and in our business. We chatted for another half an hour about websites, and design, and all sorts of things we were learning about being young women who own a business. I felt like I walked away feeling like I had made a great connection with another creative person. What more can you ask for in a lesson?!?

Here is some of Nicole's beautiful work she so graciously did for me:

So amazing! I HIGHLY recommend her for any of your handwritten needs. She does anything from addressing envelopes to calligraphing (is that a word??) and letter-pressing invites. I should have taken a picture of her business card, it's a stunning blind emboss signature on a crane paper (i think...). I'll have to take a pic and post it sometime soon.

And here is some of my not so pretty scribbles, but I'm working on it!

Maybe someday I'll have some magic ooze. But for now I'm excited to have learned something new, and met someone I admire.

Our Memorial Day Weekend

2010-06-08T00:00:00.002-05:00

Yes, I am aware that I am a week behind. But, man, what a crazy week it has been. We are getting ready for a giant conference at work, so I was working 10-12 hour days, then coming home to edit pics-- so you will have to excuse me for being a little late.

Anyhoo, Ryan and I made the journey down to Dallas over memorial day weekend to visit our plethora of friends who all made a mass exodus to the Big D these past few years. Seriously, 85% of our friends moved there. But, I suppose I shouldn't complain because it's not like they moved somewhere super inaccessible for us (::AHEM:: Lindsay & Ben, Lori...). And it is rather convenient that we can visit them all at the same time.

Lots of fun, here are some highlights from the weekend:
Making ice cream with the Fendersons:

One of my favorite things about making ice cream with the Fendesons is that they are hard core. No pansy automatic ice cream maker for them-- they are old school. The boys hand crank the adorable, vintage ice cream maker they have.

It was delish. Not just finger licking good, but nose and chin licking good, too.

We also had the pleasure of attending little Kate's 1 year birthday party. Super cute. You can check out more pics of her on the pro-blog soon!

I also had one more exciting thing happen on Memorial Day weekend, more about that to come!

CSA Pick-Up Number One

2010-05-29T00:31:00.000-05:00

My big sister has always taken good care of me. I remember when I was in 4th grade, and she was a senior in high school, she would occasionally take her off campus lunch break and come have lunch with me in the cafeteria. I was always on top of the world when she came-- I got to eat subway with my cool big sister while everyone else had to eat their green beans off of styrofoam lunch trays.

And even though we are all grown up now, she is still taking care of me :) For my birthday she gave Ryan and me a half share at a CSA (community supported agriculture). So every two weeks we receive all sorts of goodies from a local place called Berry Creek Farms. The man and his wife who own the farm are the cutest ever-- when I went to the farmers market for my first pick up they knew who I was, knew who my sister was and she lived in Chicago, knew my other sister who also picks up from him, and probably knew my ACT scores and social security number.

So I thought it would be fun to take a picture of each of the pick ups that we get to keep record. Ryan and I (well, Ryan, he's really the cook in the family) is excited to have to figure out recipes to use all of the crazy veggies that we get. I'm really excited about the peaches. :)

This is actually the last pick up, I'll post the next one soon. And ask for recipes.

Thanks Sister! You're the best, and I still think you're the coolest. And would like to eat Subway, and this CSA food, with you any lunch hour. xoxo

3 Years!

2010-05-27T21:05:00.001-05:00

Yesterday as Ryan and I were at a celebratory lunch in honor of Ryan being accepted into the Alternative Certification Program (yay!), he realized that we had another reason to celebrate -- it was our anniversary!

We are so bad, since we were married on Memorial Day weekend, i think that we automatically think that our anniversary is the Saturaday before Memorial Day monday. And we forget EVERY YEAR. We know that it is the month, but for some reason May is always just crazy and we forget. Plus, we've decided that we are going to save our anniversary experiences and have one big one at our five year mark and go to Italy! I can't wait! And now we are one year closer!

It's been a rather eventful year for us. We had just purchased our home in May, so we had our first year of mortgages and home improvements (which I have a good one to show you soon!), we got our pup, officially started the photog business, Ryan lost his job and decided to make a big career change--just a lot. But it was good. I feel like Ryan and I really grew together and became more settled in our marriage. I think the first two years still felt like we were having a really extended play session of house. Ryan is the boy, Elyse is the girl, and you're married, go! But I guess things like mortgages and tough times like loosing your job really stretched us a couple. And hopefully we have come out better for it.

It's really a joy to live with my hubby. I think he is the most kind, most loving guy a girl and ask for. To brag on him a little, he is so giving of his heart and time, and probably the most important quality in a person is he is teachable. Not in a 'I'm training my husband' sort of way, but in a way that makes him so approachable when my heart is hurt, or when I have to confront him about something. He can set aside his pride and love me through that. I'm not as good at it is he is, but I'm trying to learn from him.

So, to celebrate last night we went to our favorite icecream place.

Today is one of those days….

2010-05-21T12:15:00.008-05:00

First things first—I changed my outfit like a billion times this morning. Which lead me to the mishap of wearing a black bra with a white wife beater type shirt….classy. Too bad I didn’t realize it until I looked down and saw that Pete had gotten dog smut all over me, which once again brings attention to my black bra under my now dirty white wife beater type shirt. Awesome.

And in addition to that, I am kind of in one of those moods that I’m just emotional. I’m still stressed out about the Grey’s Anatomy season finale (will come back to this), I’m stressed for other people at work who have a really big project that I’m not really a part of, I’m stressed out about the oil that is spewing into the ocean, I’m stressed for Ryan and his test he is taking tomorrow…and this clip of this little girl on 911 almost made me cry! http://www.bing.com/videos/watch/video/little-girl-makes-unforgettable-911-call/2016uv82

get back to Greys. As my husband said last night, I feel like that season Finale needed an after game show. Wow, what a crazy, stressful, on your seat type of show! Here are my thoughts:

If you are a doctor at Seattle Grace, FIND A DIFFERENT HOSPITAL. I mean, come on, there has been a bomb that goes off, barges crash and you drown, and now a shooter picks off people in the hospital! That is not a place to be guys…
I think that all of the shooting stuff happened because the Mercy West thing didn’t take on as much as the writers thought it would. I love Avery and glad he’s on the show and REALLY hope that he and Yang get together. But as for the two Mercy West people that got killed, I think that they just didn’t know what to do with them. I can’t even remember their names.
If they were getting rid of the Mecy West people, WHY didn’t they get rid of Derek’s annoying intern. I know, I know, she’s probably going to cause conflict next season because I bet that she and Derek will have some sort of love affair because they are connected with the shooting thing. And they need a catalyst for conflict between Derek and Meredith, but she just gets on my nerves.
The thing I’m probably the most upset with is that little Grey didn’t choose Sloan. L
I still miss George.

Welp, that’s my round up of my obsession with Grey’s. I am glad they didn’t leave me hanging wondering if Derek and Alex were going to die. I don’t think I could have handled it today J

The Uniform Project

2010-05-18T18:00:00.000-05:00

I think this is a really cool and creative fundraiser. This is from the Uniform Project site:

"Starting May 2009, I have pledged to wear one dress for one year as an exercise in sustainable fashion. Here’s how it works: There are 7 identical dresses, one for each day of the week. Every day I will reinvent the dress with layers, accessories and all kinds of accouterments, the majority of which will be vintage, hand-made, or hand-me-down goodies. Think of it as wearing a daily uniform with enough creative license to make it look like I just crawled out of the Marquis de Sade's boudoir.

The Uniform Project is also a year-long fundraiser for the Akanksha Foundation, a grassroots movement that is revolutionizing education in India. At the end of the year, all contributions will go toward Akanksha’s School Project to fund uniforms and other educational expenses for children living in Indian slums."

Uniform Project Picture Book from The Uniform Project on Vimeo.

I love the creativity and heart in this! Check out their site to learn how to give.

Spoiler Alert: Grey's Anatomy

2010-05-18T12:15:00.000-05:00

Have I ever told you I'm a Grey's Anatomy fan? I'm kind of embarrassed to admit it, and I quit for a while after Meredith died and saw Denny. I decided it was too soap opera. But then I (and Ryan...but don't tell him I told you!) got sucked in again. And now I can't stop thinking about the season finale. Especially after I saw the first two minutes!!

If you don't want a spoiler, don't watch!

xoxoely

A Rising Oklahoma Star

2010-05-13T12:32:00.001-05:00

This morning I was listening to the radio when I was getting ready for work, and this kid, from Edmond, Oklahoma, was featured. At first I thought that it was Lady Gaga in an unplugged version or something, but I come to find out it is a 6th grade boy named Grayson Chance who was competing in his school talent show.

He is supposed to be on the Ellen show sometime soon. What a cool kid! And he has the perfect name for a celebrity.

What to Wear: An Overview

2010-05-12T12:32:00.000-05:00

I always get tons of questions about what to wear during a photo session. Sometimes I wish that I could spend a whole day with people, take them to the mall, pick out clothes, get their hair and make up done, and then do a photo session. I think that would be so much fun! But since most people don't realistically have the time to do that, I've decided that I am going to try to do some 'what to wear' posts that people can refer to.

There are a couple things that I do always suggest to people:

Wear what you are comfortable in. That doesn't mean that you show up in your sweat pants and flip flops with socks, but if you are not used to wearing something that is strapless or low cut, and it makes you feel like your biz is hanging out, don't wear it! Not that there is anything wrong with those types of clothes, I love a cute little sassy strapless dress, but if you don't feel comfortable, you won't look comfortable in your pics.
Don't Be too Matchy-Matchy. I don't suggest doing the all white shirts or all black shirts. When taking outside photos, it is hard to pull detail in them and people end up looking like a big blob with heads. Choose coordinating colors, but not all the same color. For example, For an engagement shoot, a groom-to-be may wear a white shirt with a grey sweater vest, and a blue, green and pink plaid tie tucked into the sweater vest. The bride-to-be could wear a sassy little pink dress with a blue necklace and shoes. Something along those lines.
Layers. I'm a big fan of layers. They add texture and pop to most photos.
What would J.Crew Wear? If all else fails, look in some of your favorite stores magazines or website and see how they dress and try to imitate that. 90% of the time you can pull something out of your closet and imitate what they're doing.
Note to the Ladies: Wear a little more make up then you usually do.
Pick a Theme: Theme shoots are some of my favorite. Pick a theme, such as "old movies" or "a picnic," and I will help you run with it. We of course will still do the typical pics, but choosing a theme will help you get some unique clothing ideas, and photos that are one of a kind.

I saw these pajamas over on Tada!, and can't you just imagine two little girls with a slumber party photo shoot??

And the number one rule: You Don't Have to Listen to What I say. These are just suggestions. Sometimes people love to get out of their comfort zone and sport a driving cap, even though they've never worn one in their life. And they look like a million bucks. (which I really want someone to do by the way)

Now, with all that to say, here is a list of some of my favorite (but pricey) stores to find great clothes.

Women: Anothropologie, J.Crew, Ann Taylor, Mod Cloth (their stuff is super fun, but less pricey)

Men: JCrew, Banana Republic, Gap

Kids: Dagmar Daley (OMG, their stuff is soooo cute), JCrew Kids,

For all of my lovely brides

2010-05-12T08:00:00.000-05:00

One of my favorite blogs, 100 Layer Cake, is having a $250 giveaway to brides who have registered at William-Sonoma. So if that's you, go enter! http://100layercake.com/blog/archives/6236

Celebrating Moms

2010-05-10T12:15:00.001-05:00

Moms. They're great, aren't they? Moms who love us even when we break all the dishes in their cuppords. Moms who drove us from here to there to everywhere so that we could be involved in all of our favorite sports. And Moms, like mine, who recognize the potential in us before we even do. I would not be taking pictures today if it weren't for my mom.

So, this week on I Heart Faces, their contest is Celebrating Moms. Here is my friend, client, and one of the sweetest Moms I know.

Inspiration

2010-05-06T17:30:00.001-05:00

I love the type of photography I do. I love capturing the relationship between baby and mom, and the excitement of a Bride and Groom running down the isle after they say “I Do.” And there are very few things that inspire me to want to do any other type of photography.

Today I saw one of them.

(photo/article found here)

Rosie Hardy is a 19 year old photographer (yes, 19!), who I think is just incredible. Her photo manipulation skills are superb, and I am obsessed with her cloud project. How does she do that?

She’s 19 and inspiring this old lady to be more creative with my portraits. What inspires you?

A Can of Worms

2010-05-05T19:00:00.001-05:00

My co-worker showed me the new Miley Cyrus music video today-- Can't be Tamed.

Apparently there has be controversy about it it. Mainly her outfits, but I would venture to say it's probably more about the subject matter and the dancing.

Disney Girl Gone Wild? I tend to think she's getting a little older, and is wanting to express herself as a young woman apart from the sweet as pie persona of Hannah Montana. I actually think that the video itself has an interesting concept and is well done, but I'm curious to see how parents of young girls who idolize Miley will will react. Any thoughts?

Whole Foods coming to the OKC!

2010-05-05T17:30:00.000-05:00

Holler!! I am soooo excited! Buzz about Whole Food coming to OKC has been wafting through my workplace the past few months, but saw this News 9 story, so you heard it from them, not me!

http://www.news9.com/global/story.asp?s=11012251

This is seriously going to hurt my grocery budget.

Now They're Giving Away a Kelly Moore Bag!

2010-04-29T18:00:00.002-05:00

So my last post was about the givaway for the workshop. Everyday they're doing a new giveaway for the day, and then each day you enter for the giveaway you're put in the BIG giveaway for the workshop. My last blog they were giving away a UNO resource, which looked cool, but I was more interested in the workshop.

Well NOW they are giving away a Kelly Moore bag. I've talked about them on this blog before, they look fabulous. And I wasn't going to annoy you with another blog post entry, but if I didn't win the workshop spot, the bag would be a nice consolation prize!

But here's the question of the day: If I were to win, which color would I choose, the grey or the yellow?? I'm so indecisive, what do you think??

I'm leaning toward the yellow because it is so fun, but the grey is pretty classic. Any suggestions? You can go check out the Kelly Moore site, they have some really nice bags for guys, too, wouldn't Ryan look cute with this one:

And Check out the LOVE AFFAIR BLOG and enter to win a Kelly Moore Bag & a seat to their upcoming workshop in Dallas!! www.loveaffairworkshop.com

Fingers and Toes Crossed!

2010-04-27T19:30:00.000-05:00

For about a year, I have REALLY been wanting to go to a photography workshop. I've been yearning to connect with other photographers, specifically women photographers, and to learn from others and get little tips from people who are more experienced than I am. I am not prideful, I will take advice from anyone who has life experience on me.

But usually these workshops are pretty pricey because they include hotel time, dinners, etc. Plus, many of them are far away, so it's hard to get the time off to travel. So the past year I have been focusing on buying equipment and have put a workshop on the side burner until next year.

BUUUUTT one of the bloggers that I follow, Davina that I follow (who has great articles and interviews about women in photography) is hosting a workshop with 3 other talented ladies called Love Affair, and they are running a contest for a seat at their next in DALLAS! With in a hop, skip and a jump from the OKC! And by blogging, I get an entry. So here it is. Wish me luck! And you can try, too (even though I would be insanely jealous if you won :) Check out http://www.loveaffairworkshop.com! They’re giving away prizes & a seat to their workshop on the blog this week! Go enter to win

And because no blog is fun with out a pic, here are some sweet little toes of our friend JJ's baby.

Best Evening Ever!

2010-04-26T20:07:00.000-05:00

When I got out of work, this is who was waiting for me in my car:

And this is who the table I came home to:

My husband knows me well:

And what was playing when I walked in the door (Miles Davis):

This was the new necklace from Traci I was wearing:

These pretties were from the wedding last night that I got to bring home. They took up almost every vase I had:

And this was my tasty meal:

Prepared by my yummy husband :)

Who gave and planted these pretty flowers to grow on the pergola:

And the best of your birthday-- you can wear whatever you want:

And now we are 22 minutes into the Blind Side ad we are both already crying.

Summit Entertainment Gave me a Birthday Present :)

2010-04-26T09:18:00.000-05:00

New Eclipse trailer!!! I'm so excited!

Drumroll please.....

2010-04-16T21:55:00.000-05:00

Well, blog, I have been avoiding you. Specifically this post. Not because I have some big scary to share, but because it is an epic post. Post number…..(drum roll please)…..100!

Streamers shooting, confetti flying, and now…what do I talk about??? I was hoping that my hundredth post so I would f. But, no, I have just been letting it sit all lonely and neglected.

So I was looking back at my posts from the past year and a couple of months. It’s been a crazy ride for us! I started a business, traveled to Korea, we bought a house, got a puppy, survived 2 snow storms, lost a job, and now here we are. It’s been kind of a crazy ride! I wish I could say that we are on a high point of the ride right now, but it’s been a tough month. But I think it is all starting to even out now.

Ryan has been working really hard to get everything in line for his Alternative Certification to teach. I can’t remember if I had mentioned that teaching was the game plan. When Ryan got laid off in January, it was scary, but at the same time a great opportunity for him to really look at what he wants to do. He liked his old job for the most part, but he was pretty sure that he didn’t want to be in insurance for the rest of his life. So with the help and encouraging of a sweet friend, Ryan came to the conclusion that he would really like to teach. And he is super excited. Like, jump up in the air, happy.

And when I came home from work yesterday, he had his study guides and books sprawled out on the dining room table taking notes. Ryan. Studying. More than the night before. It’s a small miracle. And I am really proud of him, and happy that he has found something he is passionate about. So keep your fingers crossed that he passes the test! And keep your toes, legs and eyes crossed that he will get a job, too.

And I have been doing a lot of soul searching about my photography. Really trying to develop a style of my own, a voice of my own. Which is hard for me, because we all know how indecisive I am.

So that’s what’s going on with the Fairs on my hundredth post. That, and our little Pete turns one TODAY!!! And because Pete is our baby, we gave him the first year photo treatment, cupcake and all:

I know, we are horrible people. I would judge me if I were you, too. How terribly unlucky that Pete got paired with the two of us. Putting him in bowls, making him sit in a high chair. At least we reward him heavily with tastey treats. And don't fret, we were very careful with our use of open flame with our pup -- and the cupcake was dog healthy, too, pureed chicken and eggs made by yours truly.

Do you like that his birthday picture turned out like one of those creepy posters that the dentist hangs on the ceiling for you to look at when you get your teeth cleaned, or that Angela from the Office would hang in her cubicle? 5% horrific, 95% HILARIOUS! Because the photo was cheesy, I chose a font that equaled in it's bad taste.

So this is us, on our 100th post. Over and out.

Custom Made Backpacks

2010-04-08T00:07:00.000-05:00

Normally, I don't think Pigeons are cute. I personally think they are flying rats. But here's proof that a good outfit can work wonders:

Yep, that pigeon is wearing a backpack. And I have to admit, it's actually kind of cute. I heard the story today on NPR about how scientist are studying the flying patterns of birds, and they developed this little GPS system in the backpack that weighs about half an ounce, and records location data 5 times per second. That's pretty amazing. You can read the whole story at npr.org.

Off to bed for me, maybe I'll have dreams I'm flying....I've never had one of those before :)

Easter Adventures

2010-04-05T20:43:00.000-05:00

Yesterday was an amazing spring day. I couldn't have asked for a more beautiful day to celebrate with family. My sister has two young children, so we had a blast watching them search for the RIDICULOUS amount of little presents the 'Easter Bunny' hid in the front yard.

In fact, the Easter Bunny brought so many treats, that the kids had to move on from both of their baskets to shopping sacks to accommodate. Then Uncle Ryan had to carry it because it was too heavy.

In between our parents homes and dinners, we had some Easter fun of our own with Pete! We decided to have an Easter Treat Hunt! He didn't get it at first, but once he understood that the yard had magically turned into little yummers, he was running around like a mad hatter!

Don't mind our overgrown patchy grass.

And here's happy Pete, with a tummy full of Easter treats :)

Stay tuned for what is caused this odd behavior of my husband.

Peter Frankenstein Fair, The Greatest Dog That Has Ever Lived

2010-04-03T00:16:00.001-05:00

Ryan and I are really enthused by Pete lately. Minus his exsessive shedding at the moment, he’s just about the greatest dog that has ever lived, and he’s getting greater. The new things that he has recently done include:

Catching the ball when we throw it up really, really, really (I mean really) high
Going to his bed when we eat dinner. We always make him do this when we have meals (because let’s be honest, we eat at the couch most nights and he likes to sneak little tasty treats when we aren’t looking), but recently we haven't even had to tell him to go to his bed--he’s just figured it out. When we make our meal and emerge from the kitchen, he goes straight to his bed with no prompting. Awesome.
He is trying to negotiate with me. We always put him outside when we leave the house, and usually he’s happy with that. Except for lately when it’s been cold. I’ll open the back door, tell him to go outside, and then he will walk right past me into his kennel, and look at me like “Hey, I’m just going to stay in here today, is that cool?”
And my most favorite thing about Pete: He lets me take ridiculous pictures of him, as seen below.

Don’t worry moms, this isn’t the same bowl that I put your babies in. This is the slightly larger one that it nests in. But Pete is our baby for the time being, so he gets the bowl treatment.

But Pete was pretty hilarious when we took these pics. He DID NOT want to go in the bowl. I suppose "let's me take ridiculous pictures' wasn't a wholly honest statement. Puts up with our shinanagans because we give him treats is probably more accurate. Here's a rundown of how this went:

Ryan picks up Pete and puts him in absurdly large bowl.

Pete escapes and runs for freeeeeddddooooommmm!

Ryan gets Pete back in bowl, and Pete looks at me angered and humiliated, complete with grass of defeat all over him.

Pete realizes he's going to get a little treat, licks his chops and decides to cooperate, indicating this by a wink. What a great dog.

Watch out future Fair children, I will also make you sit in bowls. I'll even try to finagle you in there for your senior pics if I can. Ba-ha-ha.

Speaking of babies in bowls, you can see can see some over on the pro-blog!

This will be my family some day

2010-03-31T17:07:00.000-05:00

I just know it. This reminds me of such things my husband would do, and I'm sure the reaction our children would have. Please go watch.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sb9eL3ejXmE

YOU'RE A SINGLE LADY!

The Chicks are Famous!

2010-03-31T08:18:00.003-05:00

I am so excited, one of my most favorite bloggers posted some of the chick pics on her blog! Miss B from Blah, Blah, Blahg (cutest name I think) loves baby animals, and posts them every Monday to brighten the day. Which is actually how I started following her blog, because she posted this cute little guy:

(found on blah, blah, blahg)

Make your heart melt, huh?? So sweet--and I never thought I'd say that about a pig! Maybe Lindsay will want to get a little piglet after seeing this...

Anyway, I love Miss B and her Blahg, and you should go take a gander at her cute pictures and great ideas. And then you will be hooked, just like me.

Dramatic Black and White

2010-03-29T18:00:00.007-05:00

This weeks photo challenge at I Heart Faces is dramatic B&W pics. This picture was from an engagement session I did a while back. These two just had a baby, and I'm going to take some family photos soon, yay!

chick pics on the pro blog

2010-03-24T21:06:00.001-05:00

The little ladies are too cute to not get another shout out. View them here!