Success

Success. What does it really mean? 

I've been thinking a lot about what it means lately. Manly I think because I it is something that I seek. I want to look back at my life and feel like it was successful. 

Life in the Fair household has been a bit on the crazy side, Weddings and photoshoots on the weekends, full time jobs during the week, and then hours of editing on weeknights. Occasionally I have to actually schedule time off for us. Mark a big X on the calendar so that I don't schedule something.

Because of the way my mind works, I automatically link my success to weather of not I do my job well. And I have high standards. I can not think of a photo shoot or design item I've done that after I felt completely satisfied, I want to strive to do more/better/greater/more creative. But that's a whole other issue. But what I mean by that, I get very focused on doing those things well, that I fear that I will let things in my personal life slip. Things that I feel are important to be successful at. Like my marriage, friendships, sleeping...

So to be better at these things, I think it means cutting or consolidating some things so that I have more time to be successful at things like being a good wife/friend/sister/daughter. 

And if you haven't figured it out by my lack of posts the past few months, the personal blog is something that I've decided that I can no longer be successful at, so I've decided to go down to just one blog. The one that is attached to my photography website, www.elyfairphotos.com/blog. I'm going to try to keep up with some personal stuff on there, too.

I know this all sounds so melodramatic, like I'm dropping off the face of the earth. I think I just needed there to be a little closure and finality. I hope that you will stick with me and continue to follow me on the Pro-personal blog.

Giveaway on the Pro Blog!

Hello Friends!

I know a lot of you are cross over readers to my pro blog, but I wanted to let everyone know we are running a contest for a free mini session and canvas on the pro blog! Go check it out and maybe WIN! xoxoely

I Love This Commercial

Pencil Art

This is incredible. Itty bitty pieces of graphic art made out of pencils by Dalton Ghetti.

image from www.traditionallymoderndesigns.blogspot.com

Appreciation

I was thinking today about how blessed I am to have some really special people in my life. Friends and family who are there in the thick and thin. Who are genuine and transparent. Who encourage me in my endeavors with out selfish motive or jealousy. Who help me to become who I am supposed to be.

I appreciate them. And it reminds me of all of the things that I appreciate in life and in others that make me want to be a better person. Such as...

-Creativity
-Original thought
-Honesty
-Integrity
-Selflessness
-A clean house
-a pup who is always happy to see me
-a husband who is always happy to see me
-a hug on a bad day
-laughter
-kindness
-generosity
-self awareness
-RAIN (some would be appreciated anytime soon!)
-a warm place to live
-food to share
-morning pedicures with friends
-knowledge
-the pursuit of knowledge
-the realization that I don't know everything
-an inquisitive mind
-soft colors
-delicate flowers
-my family
-friends like those I've listed above

I think think things have just been a little crazy busy lately, and I didn't even realize how much pressure I have been feeling. So when I got home, even thought I had a long list of things I wanted to accomplish before my head hit the pillow, I just sat down and caught up on a couple of episodes of Parenthood. It was the perfect medicine to relax, and watch a show that I could cry at. And I was alone, so I just let it all out. And I'm feeling like I can appreciate what is around me even a little bit more now.

And because you know I hate to blog with out a photo...

Pete is WIDE.

Wide angled lens that is. We rented a wide angle for the wedding we shot this weekend, so I wanted to have some fun with Pete before we sent it back. You asked for Pete, now you're getting lots of him!

Yawning, not biting. No worries

I sure do like this little guy.

Pete and tricks for shooting in sunlight

So, I've had a couple people point out that I haven't taken a lot of pictures of Pete lately. Mainly because he's been kind of sickly. He had some tummy problems last month, and then got F-I-X-E-D, and had some complications and had to wear the cone of shame for 2 weeks. So he has had it kind of rough.

But, as I mentioned on my pro-blog, I had to order a replacement lens because the motor in one of our old ones went out, so I figured he would be a good subject to test out. And as I was looking at the photos I took, I noticed that I had several different types of lighting situations in our back yard, and the different effects it gave.

And I have to note: this is big for me. I don't really love any of these pics, other than the fact that they are of sweet Pete. And I rarely show anything but my best pics, but I thought this was a good lesson.

So, first I was being lazy and just snapping a few to make sure it worked. So I was in bright, direct sun:

Yes, even Pete does not like direct sunlight. And usually whomever you are taking pictures of won't like it either. Not only is it pretty unflattering, its tough to keep you eyes open. Exhibit A above.

So, next I moved him to an area on the porch shaded by the house. Colors are more vibrant, and you get a much more even light.

Now, I've told Pete that he looks like a hyena when he holds his ears back like that. But apparently he doesn't trust me, so I took a photo to prove it to him.

Now, on a normal basis I would be happy with the pic above (minus the hyena-ness). But I couldn't get him to stay, so I had to move to plan C to get him to loosen up. His new favorite toy, basketball on a rope.

What I did for this photo was expose for his face-- meaning I changed the settings on my camera to make sure his face was correctly exposed. It blew out the background, which some photographers would say is a no-no, but it doesn't bother me. And I like the nice soft look it gives the picture.

That's all I've got kids. See you next time :)

Lovely

I saw these over on PoppyTalk, and I'm in awe. People's creativity just astounds me sometimes. The amount of patience and work that must have gone into these book covers, wow. Just wow.

The artist who creates them is named Jillian Tamaki, and she has some more view on her blog. She also made this fun monster quilt. I wish I were talented enough to sew, let alone make such imaginative creations!

So, that's my inspiration for the day :) xoely

A Rock

That's what I've been under. Well, actually, just a load of editing, but none the less.

Anyway, today at work I got to do some research on some type posters for an invitation that I'm working on. Typography in school was never my strong point, so I think that just intensifies my love to type and type treatments. These were some of my favorites that I saw/love/want to hang all around me.

Classic.

The amount of time that went into this Cameron Moll piece is incredible. Even the little flying bird is two commas put together. I heard this designer speak last year at the How design conference, and the story of the creation is really cool. You should check out the website.

Love this Old Tom Foolery mustache poster.

Ork has a series of posters that include major cities and the local areas. I think it would be really cool to get one of each city you lived in.

And this one if for my sister in law who made this awesome pillow.

What inspires you that you want to fill your room with??

While He is Away

Um. So this is what happens when Ryan leaves for a couple of days:
1) I have dinner at 5:30
2) Shower and then proceed to stay in my pink fluffy robe for the rest of the night
3) Be really lazy. But when I DO do something, I reward myself. When I do the dishes I have some ice cream. When I feed Pete, I have some ice cream. And so on.
4) Watch unwholesome teeny-bopper showed on the CW.

Good thing he comes back tomorrow, I'm out of ice cream :)

I am thankful for:
Sunday:
1) rest
2) rain for our thirsty soil in Oklahoma
3) good photo shoots
4) Super sweet clients who won't let me leave their driveway with-out putting air in their tires
5) Cars with heaters

Monday:
1) Meetings that help the day go faster (mind you, meetings are NOT something that I am normally thankful for)
2) friends who make me dinner that I eat at 5:30
3) nights in my fluffy pink robe
4) rewards for small things
5) Nights vegging on the couch
6) long phone calls from people I love

Here is a sweet pic that I took in Vegas. If you haven't seen them on the pro blog, you should check them out :)

The past few days

My heart is so sad for Japan. The images that I've been seeing are breaking my heart. It's hard for me to function as a normal person. I feel like I should just have a day of mourning for everyone who lost their lives.

But even through all of the sadness that is happening, I, like I vowed for lent, will continue to be thankful. Here are my thankfuls for the past few days.

Thursday:
I am thankful

1. I am thankful for winning free lunch at whole enchilada
2. Sisters

Friday:
I am thankful

1. for friends who bring me cupcakes
2. that at some point someone taught me to back up, back up, and back up my files. Since my computer crashed yesterday, I still can still and didn't use all my work.
3.  for Warm days

Saturday:

I am thankful

1. Days to rest.
2. left over cupcakes
3. friends who are willing to help me in a tight spot
4. saturday morning cartoons :)

Defeat.

Today, I'm feeling defeated. I think it's most likely because I ate five chocolate chip cookies for dinner. 

Or because it is just one of those seasons of struggle. I know in my brain that I am so crazy blessed. But my heart feels unrested. And then I feel guilty because there are people out there who have true struggles- like how to put food on the table for their families. 

As I start these 40 days of lent, I want to try to be more positive. So everyday I am going to say something I am truly thankful for that day and build on it.

Today I am thankful for: a healthy pup. Pete is on meds and back to his sweet self.

My New Little Buddy

Fresh out of the oven, this is my new little buddy Tanner. My lovely sister had him this morning at 9:04am, 8lbs 12oz.

Welcome little man! You can't even imagine how loved you and your fat little cheeks already are.

Waiting for Superman

There are so many things that have been running through my brain lately.  I think this is probably one of my most personal train of thought posts that I've ever done. You'd think I have been hiding in a cave, though, barely any contact with the blog-o-world. But I've been working really hard implementing some of the thinks that I learned at my photography conference last week, and catching up at work.

One of the things that I've been thinking about was a documentary that Ryan and I watched this week, have any of you seen Waiting for Superman? It's been out for a while, we just got around to seeing it. It is about the state of the schools in America, and the decline of them.

They brought up some really interesting points about tenure, and the train of thought that bad communities create bad schools. But instead proposes that bad schools create bad communities.

There have been a lot of things lately that have been bothering me about the attitudes of our country. And with-out going all politio on you, I just feel like so many people have a sense of entitlement. I feel like so many people in my generation think they have a right to succeed with out the motivation to work hard.

Don't get me wrong, I believe in the idea that all people should have the equal opportunity to succeed. I believe that if Person A has the dedication and skill, there should not be anything that holds them back-- which is why we have scholarships and financial aid. But I also believe that person B doesn't deserve to have the same lot in life with-out the same amount of dedication and skill.

I know many people can look at me and say that I grew up privileged, and in a lot of ways I was given a better chance to succeed because I was blessed to grow up in a community and family that could provide me with good opportunities. I do see truth in that.

But I also see the truth in that our country was built on people who worked hard. Who knew the importance of education. Who sacrificed so much to have an education, and it was precious. And in many ways I feel like our country's growth has been stunted by the red tape of special interest groups.

I also know that there are people who don't have the same opportunities because of circumstances in their lives. In the documentary, there was a woman who understood the importance of education so deeply that even though she was a single mom living in a poor community, she was spending $500 a month to send her child to private school to get a good education. It's the stories like that that break my heart. I can not imagine the amount of sacrifice it must have took to write that check every month. That would be a huge sacrifice for Ryan and I, and there are two of us.

Anyway, all that to say, the movie really made me feel like there needs to be a change in our school system and society. Tenure, like many things, started out as a good school of thought. But has morphed into something that encourages mediocrity and stagnate ambition.

But overall, I think the heart of the issue is that we need parents and communities who care. I think that is where it all begins-- in the home.

Have y'all seen it? What are your thoughts?

2920 Project

So for any of you who know me, I am so terrible at 365 projects. I’ve started two, finished none. But I completely admire this dude... he did a 2920 project where he took a photo of himself every day for 8 years! Kind of cool to get to see how he has changed!



I like his pirate phase, too.

Out and About

I'm out this week, in the most bazaar place I've ever been. Anyone recognize??

Selfish Post: Design in a Bag

Okay, I'm going to be honest here. Most of the time I blog selfishly. Because I want to remember things. I have a horribly terrible memory, and I like having archives of things and personal experiences available in one place for me.

So, this is a selfish post. Because I want to remember these because I think they're so cool, and perfect for the ridiculously visual person like me. Design in a Bag! The name dangerously reminds me of a certain SNL skit, but the idea I think is pretty brilliant. In their own words, design in a bag^® is an online design resource that takes the guesswork out of putting together a cohesive look for your kitchen project. We provide proven recipes to help create your ultimate kitchen. So, basically, you buy a sample bag that has a couple of different tile option, paint swatches, design ideas and a shopping list of where you can go to buy the stuff! Originally for kitchens, they also have bathroom bags. 


So, someday, if/when we ever redo our tiny little master bathroom, I want to buy this bag:

It's even called the FAIR oaks. It's a sure sign that it's meant for our bathroom.

Ode to My Glee Pandora Station

An original composition by Stefanie Appleton & Ely Fair

oh glee Pandora station. you're so good to me

providing me your musical glories without a fee

How would I survive the long work day

without Finn and Rachel Berry singing my way?

Only with an occasional song by the original Queen

But throw in a Little Mermaid song to redeem

The perfect combination of emotional ballads and hip hop hits

Just like Brittany’s dance moves – too legit to quit

Your catchy tunes make me think I can sing

Until I’m brought back to reality by the sound of my squawking

Don’t even get me started on your awesome holiday songs

They make me wish it were Christmas, all year-long

When I need a mid-day pick stronger than a Cup of Joe

You’re my saving grace, I can feel your halo, halo, halo

Personally, I find Katy Perry’s music to be quite weak

But sing her songs on the show and I’m your biggest gleek.

Song from Kanye and Britney, Madonna and Sting

Oh Glee Pandora station, how you make my heart sing!

My Editing Buddy

Today has be a lazy, photo editing kind of day. Me and my editing buddy spent some quality time together.

Yep, he even has his own chair. And he keeps a bone in the cup holder. And only distracts me every 30 seconds or so for some pets. And his doggy lips are funny. What a great editing buddy I have.

Snow Days!

Here in the OKC we got a nice, thick blanket of snow. So the hubs and I have been doing all sorts of fun things-- like playing wii Mario Kart, watching movies, and TAXES. Ugh.

One of the nice things about snow is that it's a natural make-it-cold-fast for our fresh squeezed OJ.

And Pete gets snow mustaches.

But doesn't make for exciting blog posts. Hope you all stayed warm and safe!